Do you have a growth mindset?
Having one isn’t good enough. In fact, I’d argue to say there are some limitations when it comes to this type of mindset.
The little engine that could(n’t).
I think I can. I think I can I think I can.
That little train did make it up the mountain, but then what? Believing you can is the foundation for any change, but that doesn’t equate to action. People are who they are. You can’t change that. Dating couples are told by therapists not to try and change their partner (because it’s not happening).
Poor listeners can learn how to actively listen, but they’ll always default to talking.
Micromanagers can be told to use empathy, but task accomplishment will always be most important.
Planners can be asked to be more spontaneous, but last minute changes will always frustrate them.
We are who we are. We can’t be anything we want to be; we can only be the best version of ourselves.
Talent is innate.
People can grow, but each person has different heights of potential.
Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard, but if talented people work hard they perform better.
A talent is defined as something you have a natural affinity for. You and I are gifted in areas others aren’t. Once you identify your talents, they can be developed into strengths over time.
Talent is an advantage when used correctly widens the gap and separates us from the rest.
Focus on your strengths.
Less is more and when it comes to energy you should spend your time on what you can be great at.
With everything else ask for help or delegate to others.
There’s nothing wrong with learning new things, but if you have no passion for it, don’t align with the purpose or just aren’t good at it you’re wasting your time.
A growth mindset would say keep at it, but is that a good use of your time?
The best organizations have the right people in the right seat on the bus.
That means hiring specialists and letting them do work. Filling people’s plates with other tasks (outside of their talents) is diluting their strengths.
There’s nothing wrong with having a growth mindset, but when I hear people use that as a default response to everything challenging you’ve missed the point.
Attitude is crucial to everything we do, but at a deeper level self-awareness produces maximum results not having a growth mindset.